停止盲目讨好
Stop blindly pleasing others
在乎你的人，不需要你讨好，不在乎你的人，讨好也没用。
People who care about you don't need you to please them, and those who don't care about you are useless to please them.
感情应该是不由自主的，相处应该是内心熨帖的。
Emotions should be involuntary, and getting along with each other should be inner peace.
不要想着讨好谁，把讨好他人的力气花费在自己身上，比讨好别人要幸福许多。
Don't try to please anyone. Spending the effort of pleasing others on yourself is much happier than pleasing others.
《半山文集》曾说：
The Half Mountain Collection once said:
把放在别人身上的希望收回来搁在自己身上，可保自己一世的浪漫。
Putting back the hope placed on others and placing it on oneself can preserve one's lifelong romance.
无需讨好谁，过好你自己，真正看得上你的人，不用你讨好。
No need to please anyone, live well for yourself, and those who truly admire you don't need you to please them.
