家人相处，需要的是彼此支撑，而不是互相撕扯。
Family relationships require mutual support, not tearing at each other.
一个家庭能够往上走的底层逻辑，永远都是：彼此滋养，互不消耗。
The underlying logic for a family to move up is always to nourish each other and not consume each other.
心理学家杰克逊，将家庭模式分为两种：“消耗型”和“滋养型”。
Psychologist Jackson divided family patterns into two types: "consumptive" and "nourishing".
“消耗型”的家庭里，家人之间总是相互指责、埋怨，像黑洞吸食彼此的能量，给亲情造成无法弥合的裂缝。
In "consumptive" families, family members always blame and complain to each other, like black holes sucking each other's energy, causing irreparable cracks in family affection.
而“滋养型”的家庭，永远是支持多于消耗，理解多于苛责，鼓励多于打压。
And a 'nurturing' family always supports more than consumes, understands more than punishes, encourages more than suppresses.
家庭的幸福，需要家中每位成员的通力合作。
The happiness of a family requires the cooperation of every member in the family.
彼此少些计较，多些支持，劲往一处使，一个家才能拧成一股绳，携手把生活过得蒸蒸日上。
We should be less concerned about each other, more supportive, and work together towards a common goal. Only then can a family be united and work hand in hand to lead a thriving life.
在家庭中，所有成员本来就是利益共同体。
In a family, all members are inherently a community of shared interests.
有了足够的支持和帮衬，一家人才能相互给予能量，温暖、治愈着彼此。
With sufficient support and assistance, a family can give each other energy, warmth, and healing.
与家人相处，学会彼此支撑，少算账，多付出。
Get along with family, learn to support each other, settle accounts less, and give more.
凡事担待，互为倚仗，家庭这艘小船，才能顺风顺水、幸福安稳。
Taking care of everything and relying on each other, the family is the small boat that can sail smoothly, be happy and stable.
