生活中，你有没有遇到过类似的情况：

Have you ever encountered a similar situation in your life

父母总是以爱之名，对你生活、工作横加干涉；

Parents always interfere with your life and work in the name of love;

朋友凭着友情之名，时常找你帮忙，帮不上还讨人嫌；

Friends often ask for your help in the name of friendship, but if they can't help, it can be annoying;

爱人借着爱情之名，毫无顾忌地向你索取，弄得你疲惫不堪。

Lovers, in the name of love, without any hesitation, demand from you, leaving you exhausted.

“人类一切痛苦的起源，都源于缺乏边界感。”

"The origin of all human suffering stems from a lack of sense of boundaries."

真正的通透，是明白：每个人都有自己的路要走、自己的坎要过。谁也不能一直陪着谁，谁也无法一直帮助谁。

True transparency is understanding: everyone has their own path to take and their own obstacles to overcome. No one can always be with anyone, no one can always help anyone.

总想替别人解决问题，只会透支自己，最后得不偿失。

Always wanting to solve problems for others will only overdraw oneself, and in the end, the gains outweigh the losses.

要记住，即使是亲近的关系，也要保持应有的距离。

Remember to maintain the appropriate distance even in close relationships.

逾越了界限，则背负了他人的因果，结果往往是自我损耗。

Crossing boundaries carries the burden of causality from others, often resulting in self depletion.

当你的周边满是负能量之人，久而久之，你也会有如近墨者黑般的运势。

When you are surrounded by people with negative energy, over time, you will also have a fortune similar to that of those who are close to you.

明确交往边界，保持稳定内核，才不会让他人的坏情绪破坏了自身的能量。

Clarify the boundaries of communication and maintain a stable core, so as not to let the negative emotions of others destroy one's own energy.

情绪越是积极向上，人生也就越顺当。

The more positive your emotions are, the smoother your life will be.

当你不会过度共情他人，你才在交往中守护好磁场，收获高质量的好友圈。

Only when you don't overly empathize with others can you protect the magnetic field and gain high-quality social circles in your interactions.