面子是一个人最难放下的，又是最没用的东西。
Face is the most difficult and useless thing for a person to let go of.
当你越是在意它，它就会越发沉重，越发让你寸步难行。
The more you care about it, the heavier it becomes and the more difficult it is to move.
“人活在世上，有的活成了面子，有的活成了里子。而只有里子，才能赢得真正的面子。”
People live in the world, some live as face, some live as insiders. Only insiders can win true face
许多人碍于面子，不管自己活得多糟糕，都会把自己伪装起来、隐藏起来，以为这样才是对自己的自尊和人格最大的保护。
Many people, due to face saving reasons, disguise and hide themselves no matter how bad their lives are, thinking that this is the greatest protection for their self-esteem and personality.
但事实上，真正厉害的人，都是懂得自我成全，把自己的里子打造起来，塑造好，稳固好。
But in fact, the truly powerful people are those who understand self fulfillment, build their inner selves, shape them well, and stabilize them.
然后在形形色色的诱惑面前，以及在各种各样的生活事物面前，始终保持理智，活出自我。
Then, in the face of various temptations and various things in life, always maintain rationality and live out oneself.
