生活中，总有个别人习惯性唱反调，无论你们聊什么内容，他总是能把你的话堵死。

In life, there are always a few people who habitually sing the opposite tune. No matter what you talk about, they can always block your words.

和爱抬杠的人相处，常常会令人深感无奈。

Dealing with people who love to argue often leaves one feeling helpless.

他们自以为能言善辩、伶牙俐齿，但在别人眼中除了刻薄，就是戾气。

They think they are eloquent and eloquent, but in the eyes of others, besides being mean, they are also vicious.

谁都有自己的立场和三观，抬杠只会让关系怨怼丛生，让自己心力交瘁。

Everyone has their own stance and values, and arguing will only lead to resentment and exhaustion in relationships.

真正高情商的人，即使心里知道，即使自己有理，也懂得示弱，给别人留有余地。

People with truly high emotional intelligence know how to show weakness and leave room for others, even if they know it in their hearts and have their own reasons.

从容不迫的举止，比起咄咄逼人的态度，更能令人心折。

A calm and composed demeanor is more likely to make people feel uneasy than an aggressive attitude.

日常交往的点滴，皆可以看出一个人的修养和情商。

Everyday interactions reveal a person's cultivation and emotional intelligence.

愿往后余生，我们都能保持真诚和善良，少一些自以为是的言论，多一些以心度心的温暖。

May the rest of our lives be filled with sincerity and kindness, with less self righteous words and more warmth that is measured by our hearts.