经历越多越懂得，真正能为我们保驾护航的，并非随心所欲的行径，而是守心克己的自律。

The more experience we have, the more we understand that what truly safeguards us is not arbitrary behavior, but self-discipline that keeps our hearts and minds at bay.

《荀子》中说：“言而当，知也；默而当，亦知也。”

In the Xunzi, it is said: "When spoken, one knows; when silent, one knows."

说话恰当，是一种智慧；在该沉默的时候选择沉默，也是一种智慧。

Speaking appropriately is a form of wisdom; Choosing to remain silent at the right moment is also a form of wisdom.

一个人越成熟，就越会发现，可以指责的人越来越少。

The more mature a person is, the fewer people they will find to blame.

知人不评人，知事不声张，是一个人最顶级的清醒。

Knowing people without judging them, and knowing things without speaking up, is the highest level of clarity for a person.

《道德经》中说：“知足不辱，知止不殆。”

In the Tao Te Ching, it is said: "Contentment without shame, knowledge without danger."

到了中年才顿悟，凡事有度，过则为灾。

It wasn't until middle age that I suddenly realized that everything is moderate, but if it goes too far, it's a disaster.

行有所止，才能不逾矩、不越界、不踩雷。

Only by stopping one's actions can one avoid overstepping boundaries, crossing boundaries, and stepping on lightning.

以“止”为人生行为约束，凡事便留有余地，有所节制。

Taking "stop" as a constraint on one's life behavior, leaving room and restraint in everything.

一个人之所以狂妄，本质上是源于无知。

The reason why a person is arrogant fundamentally stems from ignorance.

真正有见识的人，往往都会有所畏惧。

Truly knowledgeable people often have fears.

人，是需要有敬畏心的。

People need to have a sense of awe.

只有心存畏惧，才会本本分分做事、踏踏实实做人。

Only with fear in mind can one work diligently and be a down-to-earth person.