有人说，人生中最重要的8个字，是“关你啥事”和“关我啥事”。

Some people say that the eight most important words in life are "what concerns you" and "what concerns me".

这八个字，就能解决80%的烦恼。这听上去似乎是逞一时口快，但仔细想想，不正是这个道理吗？

These eight words can solve 80% of the troubles. This may sound like a passing remark, but upon careful consideration, isn't that exactly the truth?

如果你每天要一次次地和别人解释，那么你的时间就在这些争论中悄悄流逝了，你的好心情也在这些争论中渐渐败坏了。

If you have to explain to others time and time again every day, then your time quietly passes through these arguments, and your good mood gradually deteriorates in these arguments.

庄子在《秋水》篇里讲过这样一句话：夏虫不可以语冰。

Zhuangzi once said in his "Autumn Water" chapter, "Summer insects cannot speak of ice.".

孔子也曾劝戒弟子，不要和春生秋死的蚂蚱谈论四季。

Confucius also advised his disciples not to discuss the four seasons with grasshoppers who live in spring and die in autumn.

和不同层次的人争辩，就是一种无谓的消耗。

Arguing with people of different levels is a pointless consumption.

他从未去过你到过的地方，不知道你读过的书，不认识你遇见的人。

He has never been to places you've been to, doesn't know the books you've read, doesn't know the people you've met.

隔着太多的障碍，沟通就是一场漫长的无用功。

Through too many obstacles, communication is a long and tedious process.

你站山巅，告诉他前面是一片海洋，他在半山腰，只能看到满目的荒凉。

You stand at the top of the mountain and tell him that there is an ocean ahead. He is halfway up the mountain and can only see the desolation everywhere.

与其和他辩论，不如朝着大海前行。

Rather than arguing with him, it's better to move towards the sea.