林语堂曾说过：不争，乃大争。不争，则天下人与之不争。

Lin Yutang once said, 'Without contention, there is great contention.'. If there is no dispute, then the people of the world will not argue with it.

凡成大事者，不能一味逞强斗狠，而是要权衡利弊、把握轻重。

Those who achieve great things should not blindly show off their strength and fight fiercely, but should weigh the pros and cons and grasp the importance.

遇见不平之事，不因一时愤怒而失去理智。

When encountering injustice, do not lose your rationality due to momentary anger.

很多时候，所谓的“争”，也是一念之间的“容”。不争，既不是糊涂，也不是懦弱，而是放大自己的格局，成就自己的人生。

Many times, the so-called 'struggle' is also a 'tolerance' between thoughts. Not arguing is neither confusion nor cowardice, but enlarging one's own perspective and achieving one's own life.

《尚书》中说：必有忍，其乃有济；有容，德乃大。

In the Book of Documents, it is said that there must be patience, which is helpful; With tolerance, virtue is great.

有所忍耐，必能有所成就；有所包容，必能成就德行。

With patience, one can achieve success; Having tolerance will surely lead to moral character.

人生若是处处锱铢必较，争得面红耳赤，只会将自己陷在深渊中。

If one is stingy and competitive in every aspect of life, they will only sink themselves into an abyss.

无论争什么，损耗的都是自己，打破了平静美好的生活，影响了健康的身体。

No matter what we fight for, it's always our own loss, breaking the peaceful and beautiful life, and affecting our healthy body.

不争、不吵、不计较，才能立于不败之地。

Only by not competing, not arguing, and not calculating can we stand invincible.