当下的我们，总是希望可以快速获得成功，快一点到达顶峰。
At present, we always hope to achieve success quickly and reach the peak quickly.
但现实往往是：越是急功近利，越是离目标更远；越是心浮气躁，反倒是走得越慢。
But the reality is often: the more eager one is for quick success and instant benefits, the farther away one is from the goal; The more restless one is, the slower they walk.
得意时，不忘形
When feeling proud, don't forget yourself
听到过这样一句话：“越是顺境，越是要戒骄戒躁。”
I have heard the saying, "The more favorable the situation, the more we must guard against arrogance and impatience
真正智慧的人，都能够摆正自己的位置，不过分自信也不高调嚣张，而是保有一颗谦恭的心，放低姿态，量力而行。
Truly wise people are able to position themselves correctly, without being overly confident or arrogant, but maintaining a humble heart, lowering their posture, and acting within their means.
困惑时，不着急
When confused, don't rush
曾国藩说：“凡遇事须安详和缓处之，若一慌忙，便恐有错。”
Zeng Guofan said, "When encountering problems, one must handle them calmly and gently. If one is in a hurry, there may be mistakes
唯有稳住心态，暗暗努力，不过分担心和恐惧，才能在机会到来时，逆风翻盘。
Only by maintaining a stable mindset, working hard secretly, and not overly worried or fearful, can we turn the tide against the wind when opportunities arise.
愤怒时，不冲动
When angry, do not act impulsively
没有人会替你承担痛苦和后悔，为坏情绪买单的也只能是我们自己。
No one will bear the pain and regret for you, and it is only ourselves who pay the price for bad emotions.
所以，不必因一时的怒气而肆意妄为，也不必因大不了的小事大动干戈。
So, there is no need to act recklessly due to momentary anger, nor is there a need to engage in big fights over trivial matters.
理智沉静带给我们的安全感，要远远大过于硬拼和较劲，因为，它不伤人，也不自伤。
The sense of security that rational calmness brings us is far greater than hard work and competition, because it does not harm others or oneself.
