《大学》中有云：“静而后能安，安而后能虑，虑而后能得。”
There is a saying in "The Great Learning": "After quietness, one can find peace; after peace, one can think; after thinking, one can gain
生活中，我们常常会遇到很多无法预测的突发状况。
In life, we often encounter many unpredictable emergencies.
遇事越是着急，头脑就会越混乱，就越容易把事情搞砸。
The more urgent the situation, the more confused the mind will be, and the easier it is to mess things up.
遇事身心宁静，方能思虑周全。
Only with a calm mind and body can one think thoroughly when faced with difficulties.
读杨绛先生的《我们仨》，对她的“不要紧”印象深刻。
Reading Mr. Yang Jiang's' The Three of Us' left a deep impression on her 'it doesn't matter'.
家里门轴坏了，关不上门，她笑着说“不要紧”。
The doorknob at home is broken and the door cannot be closed. She smiled and said, 'It's okay.'.
钱钟书头上长了个疥疮，心情烦躁，她安慰道“不要紧”。
Qian Zhongshu had scabies on his head and was feeling restless. She comforted him, saying, 'It's okay.'.
丈夫每每遇到郁闷的事情，她也会温柔地劝道“不要紧”。
Whenever her husband encounters something frustrating, she gently advises him, 'It's okay.'.
她一生平静从容，不管遇到什么事，似乎从来都不曾慌乱过。
She lived a calm and composed life, never seeming to panic no matter what happened.
简单的“不要紧”三个字背后，藏着的是“静心求稳”的处世哲学。
Behind the simple words "it doesn't matter" lies the philosophy of "seeking stability and tranquility" in life.
生活就像一场拳赛，越是心浮气躁，越容易自乱阵脚，失去对对手的理性判断。
Life is like a boxing match, the more restless one is, the easier it is to lose control and make rational judgments about their opponents.
静下心来，控制住自己的情绪，冷静应对，才能见招拆招，笑到最后。
Calm down, control your emotions, calmly respond, only then can you see the trick and laugh until the end.
急事当前，稳得下心，是一个人最了不起的才华。
Being calm in the face of urgent matters is a person's greatest talent.
