人际交往，要克制去干涉别人的冲动。
In interpersonal communication, one should restrain the impulse to interfere with others.
这世上道路千万条，人生这场旅行，不是所有人都和你去同个方向。
There are millions of roads in this world, and not everyone on this journey of life is heading in the same direction as you.
人生就好比是张考卷，每个人选择的科目不同，题目自然不同，所以，别拿自己的标准，去批改别人的答案。
Life is like an exam paper. Everyone chooses different subjects, so the questions are naturally different. Therefore, don't use your own standards to correct others' answers.
王尔德有一句非常经典的话：“过自己想要的生活不是自私，要求别人按自己的意愿生活才是。”
Oscar Wilde has a veryic saying: "To live the life you want is not selfish, but to demand that others live according to your own will
每个人活在世界上，有不同三观，不同的追求。
Everyone lives in the world with different values and pursuits.
当双方出现不可调和的分歧时，不必费心去改变对方，只需转身离开，去寻找适合同行的人。
When there are irreconcilable differences between the two sides, there is no need to bother changing each other, just turn around and leave, and look for someone suitable to go with you.
无论工作还是生活，用心选合适的，而不是为不合适的费心。
Whether in work or life, choose the right one with care, rather than worrying about the unsuitable one.
人与人之间，志同道合，实属偶然；三观不同，才是常态。
It is a coincidence that people share the same aspirations; Different values are the norm.
与其强行去改变一个错的人，我们更需要考虑的是如何在人群中，把对的人筛选出来。
Instead of forcefully changing the wrong person, what we need to consider more is how to screen out the right people in the crowd.
一个懂得克制纠正、不随意干涉别人人生的人，才能轻松过好自己的生活，改善关系。
A person who knows how to restrain and correct, and does not interfere with others' lives casually, can easily lead a good life and improve relationships.
