知我者谓我心忧，不知我者谓我何求？

Those who know me call me worried, and those who don't know me call me what I ask for?

与人交往，离不开允许二字，允许自己做自己，允许别人不喜欢自己。

Interacting with others cannot be separated from the word "permission", allowing oneself to be oneself and allowing others to dislike oneself.

这才是与人交往中，最正确的做法。

This is the most correct way to interact with others.

不必费力苛求他人的理解，也不必太在意别人的眼光和看法，我们并不是为了满足别人的期待而活着。

We don't have to strive for the understanding of others, nor do we need to care too much about their opinions and opinions. We don't live to meet their expectations.

用别人的尺子来衡量自己，得出的结论，自然是不准确的。

The conclusion drawn from measuring oneself with someone else's ruler is naturally inaccurate.

内心成熟的人，不会过分在意他人的看法。

A mature person will not overly care about the opinions of others.

他人喜欢也罢，讨厌也罢，其实都无关紧要，最重要的是：自己喜不喜欢自己、是否活出了真实的自己。

Whether others like or dislike it, it doesn't really matter. The most important thing is whether you like yourself and whether you live your true self.

抛开别人的眼光，不辜负自己，是一个人最大的清醒。

Setting aside the eyes of others and not letting oneself down is a person's greatest clarity.

真正决定你人生质量的，是你内心的选择与态度。

What truly determines the quality of your life is your inner choices and attitudes.

正如作家辛迪·芬奇所说：我会允许一切自然发生，并将之视为生命的风景。

As writer Cindy Finch once said, I will allow everything to happen naturally and see it as the scenery of life.

面对无法改变的现实，你若持续抵触反抗，只会在绝望中迷失自己。

Faced with an unchangeable reality, if you continue to resist and resist, you will only lose yourself in despair.

不如把心放宽，学会释然，无论好的坏的，允许一切发生。

It's better to relax and learn to let go, regardless of good or bad, allowing everything to happen.

相信花有花期，人有时运，走过山重水复的流年，我们终会活成圆满自在的模样。

Believe that flowers have their blooming period and people have their luck. Through the years of mountains and rivers, we will eventually live a perfect and comfortable life.