《增广贤文》中讲：良言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。

In the book "Zeng Guang Xian Wen", it is said that a good word brings warmth in winter, while a bad word hurts the cold in June.

生活中，人和人之间的误解，往往不是因为词穷，而是因为词不达意。

In daily life, misunderstandings between people are often not due to poor vocabulary, but rather because words do not convey meaning.

一个不恰当的语气，轻则让人心生埋怨，重则让人心受重创。

An inappropriate tone can be mild enough to make people feel resentful, and severe enough to cause a heavy blow to their hearts.

明明想表达关心，却因为语气生硬，反倒听起来颐指气使；

Although I wanted to express my concern, I sounded bossy because of my harsh tone;

明明想求人帮忙，却因为语气粗暴，反倒听起来不可一世；

Although he wanted to ask for help, he sounded arrogant because of his rough tone;

明明想由衷夸赞，却因为语气严厉，反倒听起来咄咄逼人。

Although I wanted to praise sincerely, my tone was harsh, but instead it sounded aggressive.

因此，控制不好语气的人，很容易与人产生误会，生活也是一团乱麻。

Therefore, people who cannot control their tone well are prone to misunderstandings and their lives are chaotic.

语气，是语言最精准的温度计，反映出你内心最真实的样子。

Tone is the most accurate thermometer of language, reflecting the most authentic appearance of your heart.

好的语气，源于内心的善意。能让别人舒适，也能让自己心安。

A good tone stems from inner kindness. It can make others comfortable and also make oneself feel at ease.

内心高傲者，语气少有谦卑；内心粗鄙者，语气难现温和。

Those who are proud in their hearts often have a tone of humility; A person with a crude heart may not have a gentle tone.

内心富足者，语气多半笃定；内心贫乏者，语气大都怨怼。

Those with inner wealth tend to have a determined tone; Those with inner poverty tend to speak in a resentful tone.

音由心生，声由人造。

Sound is produced by the heart, and sound is produced by the human.

做人，内心宽和，语气才会软和。

To be a good person, one must have a broad heart and a gentle tone.